Ask XY: Urination Confrontation

How Long Do You Have To Be In A Relationship For You Or Your Partner to
Pee In Front Of Each Other/With The Door Open?

Mr. S - I don’t find the act of evacuation to be a sign of trust, comfort, or anything else that’s cool in a relationship. I blame my parents. My mother and father always evacuated with the door open when I was growing up. I told them time and again to shut the door, since I never wanted to see them in such a position during my vulnerable youth. They never did (yet they do now when I come home). My father blamed his time in the army while my mother blamed her time spent on a farm growing up for the behavior. Since I was a young brat who believed the world revolved around me, I didn’t buy either excuse. So, that behavior is ingrained in me.

Mr. T - Depends on the person, I was in a relationship that moved fast last year and it was probably 2 weeks. 

Mr. U - There isn’t a set time frame, when ever you’re comfortable.  Could be a year, or three days, maybe that’s your thing?  You both have to be able to lock eyes and think “yeah, this is happening” and move on.  If that idea weirds you out, wait a couple of minutes to brush your teeth. 

Mr. V - No woman I’ve ever been with has peed in front of me.  It usually takes a couple months before I can pee with the door open in front of my significant other.

Mr. W – “Hi, nice to meet you, mind if I take a piss!?” not really….but kind of. Pooping is a different story…I like to believe that women don’t poop or fart.

Mr. X - Manners, I don’t do that with anyone.  Maybe when I’m married with 2 kids…

Mr. Y - The guy can pee standing up.  The girl should always shut the door because it might not be pee.

Mr. Z - I dunno, never got that far. 

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4 Comments on “Ask XY: Urination Confrontation”

  1. March 18, 2013 at 1:25 pm #

    I’m with Mr. X on this one! Even after almost 2 and a half years of dating…door closed please :)

  2. March 18, 2013 at 8:45 pm #

    Meh; never could understand false modesty.
    I mean cheezels; come on! If you’re busy one minute digging each others’ potatoes and growing the vine, what’s the difference? It’s all part of nature’s wondrous range of beautiful bodily functions.
    If the other is beautiful, then they’re beautiful all the time, anywhere, in any pose.
    And as for “love” – who was it that said something like: “We like each other for our positive attributes, and we love each other for our faults” – ?
    ie. to me the significant love-other is most beautiful at their most vulnerable, honest, and in their most perfunctory daily chore: their daily morning crap. Hallelujah, they’re beautiful, lovely, and genuinely human after all!

  3. March 19, 2013 at 9:46 am #

    I tried the evacuation with the sig when I was engaged years ago. I blame the bathroom door being open when he did anything on the toilet for breaking us up. You lose a lot of sexy when it comes to that. But this is just me. I think everyone is different. But I will never ever ever use the loo in front of my guy, no matter how long we’re together.

  4. March 23, 2013 at 12:35 pm #

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost four years. He poops and pees with the door open. I pee with the door open if we are home alone, otherwise its always closed. We also fart in front of each other. I do think its a trust thing and I’m glad we are that comfortable with each other.

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