What are your thoughts on virgins? Are you okay with popping their cherry?
Mr. U - Pop pop pop!!! Love it. Do you know any? Ha kidding … it is great if the girl is at a normal age but it also means that she is probably very guarded and she is going to take a lot of work just be in a normal relationship. My friend just married a 26 year old virgin and it was kinda strange at first but in the end it could be special also. You just wonder if she has self control or is she just that freaked out by guys.
Mr. V - Depends on the person.
Mr. W – That is a heavy responsibility. Sex can be hugely intimidating, and the problem is most of the late-teen and up virgins are the smart ones watching the unwashed masses breed like cattle. Taking someone’s cherry is a scary prospect, because that first time will be burned into their memory. Everyone wants the Casanova passion, not a sweaty “where do you like it” fumbling for fifteen minutes. Living up to the expectations can be the hardest thing about taking someone’s cherry, aside from everything that could potentially result in such a deed.
Mr. X - I have one thing to say about virgins. Let the partner know! I have learned after the fact twice now, while I kind of knew beforehand or during, it’s always awkward to find out you were a first after it happened. It’s always better to be upfront and honest.
Mr. Y - It worries me a bit. You don’t want a radically attached girl wanting to “HOLD ONTO YOU FOREVER!” because you were her first. That’s happened to me and it took a lot of work to end that relationship. If that doesn’t happen, than mazel tov.
Mr. Z - I have “popped” cherries before. I don’t really think it’s as big of a deal as some other guys. I could actually backfire and you may have yourself a stage 5 clinger on your hands afterwards.
I actually, am a cherry popper of my ex-bf. He swore he’d wait til marriage…then he swore I’d be the only one until he died…then he swore even if we broke up and he married he’d want me (that should have been a clue right there)…and then he swore he wasn’t lying.
Whatever the decision, keep your dignity and self worth in tact!
I am laughing about the stage 5 clinger.